A Prison Life or A Good Life?

It has been sometime that I do not update my blog lately. I have been adapting my life in Jordan, with less friends around, little shopping malls, little restaurants and yes everything seems lesser compare to KL. Friends always asking, what do I do in Jordan? They know that I am not working, so they will wonder what do I do at home? I am not sure if I had blogged it before but I think is good to update my life here so far..

I am a sleeping beauty! I can sleep up to 12 hours daily without any headache after that. But normally I sleep for 10 hours only coz sometimes I do think that sleep too much is like wasting of time. I just ensure that my body get enough of rest in order to start a bright new day! So as we all know that one day there is 24 hours. Extracting my sleeping time, that will be left 14 hours. What do I do for the rest of time?

I would say that my oral cleaning(twice), facial wash, mask and showers could take my 2 hours daily. I think that is reasonable :)

I spend about 30 minutes preparing my lunch, 1 hour for dinner or maybe an extra 30 mins for miscellaneous like boiling soup and herbal tea. That will take about 2 hours too!

I spend about 3 hours for my leisures like reading, Facebook, chatting with friends(sometimes), surfing, anything that I can do inside my apartment. I think 3 hours is pretty much but it just pass easily~

Time for bonding when my hubbie is back will take about 4 hours. Normally we will have our dinner together, watching series together, or discussing on some interesting topics like travelling, future and etc.

Evil 3 hours for some housework which I hate most. Laundry, mopping, sweeping, ironing...basically housework, you name it, I will have done that!Sometimes, it could take less than 3 hours and I will have more time for my leisures~

My life pretty tough ya? Hubbie always say that my life is what he is hoping for and I will always tell him to divorce me and change his private parts so that he *might* have the chance to live as what I am living now :)
I love it in the beginning but as time past, I am getting bored and looking for something more interesting. My mum always say that I should enjoy my time now as in the near future, when the time with babies and children, you will start to miss it! Well, it's true so I just take it as what He (God and hubbie) gives me ;)

A Reason For Gifts!

I am sure that everyone of us here love to recieve gifts. When we were young, birthday presents was the only thing that we were longing for. And when we reached the teenager stage, we hope to get something during the valentines day! As we grow older and older, there are lots of reasons for a gift. Well, let me list it out:

1) Birthday present                                                         
2) Valentines present
3)Mother's day present (If you are a mother)
4)Wedding anniversary present (If you are married)
5)Dating anniversary ( Don't worry, even though you are not married, you still get your gift. For married lady, this is bonus!)
6)Christmas/ new year present
7) Chinese New Year present ( Yeah, if you are a chinese, you may request a present on the chinese people big day or maybe an angpow!)
8) Surprise present ( Ladies can always request to receive surprises from boyfriend or husband, just to make ourselves happy :) at least once a year )

So there you go, so many reasons for a gift. But maybe you will change your mind once you get married. I am thinking, if I continue to request 7 gifts a year, my husband might be bankrupt soon. Let's say for an average gift is about RM2k and that will be RM14k! We can do so much with this RM14K. And this RM14k is not including those trips when we go somewhere for a holidays. Hotel, food and shopping that could cost an average of RM5k at least, and of course depends where we go~ As for our Japan trip next month, the tour cost us about RM15k not including our extention stay in Tokyo.

And now, since I am no longer working, hubbie will be the only bread winner. I feel guilty to buy anything or request something which is not necessary but ladies like to shop!!! This is like a permanent illness with no treatments that can help. I wish I can back to the working society so that at least, I can afford something I like :) The bad thing is, I cant even afford to buy a present to my hubbie's coming birthday. I have money, but those cash are given by my husband. If I use that to buy a present for him, isn't that like he bought himself a present which chosen by me? I think I cook a lovely meal for him will be the best! My dillema solved.

Pregnancy

Today I heard a good news from my friend in FB, that she is pregnant 2 months! I really feel happy for the couple. They just got married last year and soon they will become papa and mummy in 7 months time. They are really lovely and I believe God had sent them the best present ever :) I hope God will continue to bless them and hope the little baby in the womb will grow healthier day by day.

My friend did asked me back when is our turn. Not only her, but everyone around us will ask the same question. Well, I am still waiting for my last hepatitis B injection in June before I am dare to start to concieve. Maybe I read too much, that I am followed the guidiance to have my pre-conception check up before we decided to have a baby. According to the gynae, I need my Hepa B jab and that's why we are still waiting. I just hope my body is healthy enough to carry the gift from God.

I always worry that my body is not strong enough. Maybe it is due to my figure, small and look weak all the time. I had tried to gain weight but nothing much. I always remind myself to eat more, but sometimes just no appetite unless good food is always around :)

Well, anyway..just wish me all the best! " In baby making" after June...haha

Anyway, have you think about the pressure you gonna have after getting pregnant? Well, as far as I know, the mummy might get morning sickness or the mood swings easily. Everyday, need to take a range of healthy food in order to be sufficient provided to the womb. And the body will gain weight day by day that might cause the waist feeling tired. Or even more, some pregannt ladies will encounter hormon inbalance that will cause lots of breakouts. Just imagine the poor mum, that she need to sacrifice a lot just to deliver a baby.

During the labour, definitely in pain and that could last for few hours or up to one day! The mummy need to suffer cuts at the private part.After delivered the baby, some mummy might encounter some problems like hair loss or tooth loss due to insufficient nutrient. All the good nutrients have been given to the womb. Gosh...just feeling scary when I think into details.Well, my purpose not to scare the ladies, but just to remind everyone of us here, including the gentlemen that our mummy is always the greatest of all. Treat them well.

Though I am scare, but I think married women do not have choice but have to bear with the pain at least once in your lifetime. We can only hope for a healthy baby that worth the pain. Good luck ladies!

My 27th Birthday Celebration

This year I celebrated my birthday in Amman, Jordan. Basically, I prefer to celebrate it with more family members, besides merrier but also a time where all of us can gather and have some good food together. We do celebrate birthday every year, and when you get older, you will be afraid to celebrate it as it reminds you that you are older a year Now!

When I was a teenager, I wish something that only benefit to myself and now I wish for everyone who is important in my life and family too. That's the difference and I know I am getting older. Well, everyone gets older year by year and the important is to keep or maintain our health, eat right and exercise more! That's the best remedy to maintain youth!

We had our dinner at Romero restaurant. We had brocolli soup as starter, seafood spaghetti and seafood platter as main course and gelato and softle as dessert. The dessert was free, compliment for my birthday!

My birthday cake with fireworks!

And with normal candles~~

Another good news, we will be flying to Japan for a holiday soon. I have waited for so long. I can't wait to:

see sakuras....

 Mount Fuji....

take pictures with Sumo!

and have delicious sushi, shasimi and lots more....

 Wait for my Japan post!!!